Neurolinguistic Programming
Homosexuality, from my understanding is not unfavorable, it is the prelude to narcissism, a necessary stage in human psychological development. It can become unhealthy if not properly guided or can be delayed by unhealthy television programs, books or music. Averting libidinal energies usually employed for mental development does not cause homosexuality, it delays it. I drew an affirmative conclusion television can influence sexual development after reading Age of Manipulation, The Sin in Sincere and the Con in Confidence, by Brian Wilson Keys as well as from my own personal experiences, in that television and advertising do not promote homosexuality but actually misdirects libidinal energies toward that which the television presents through characters and promotes through advertising. I think television, books and music can be a major influence on sexual behavior just as pornography can and does influence sexual acting out.
In my case numerous traumas were perpetrated upon my person which I either re-enacted or came from outside sources, driven by the desires of the abusers (who may have indulged in pornography) or were also reenactments from traumas in their lives, in addition to my own television viewing, book reading and music which averted my energies and corrupted my thinking and thus my life. I once believed the lack of breast feeding was the source of my failures and lack of achievement, but have since discovered television, music and books have had a greater impact. I later discovered The Story of O possibly influenced the perpetrator of one of my childhood molestations, the other likely a re-enactment.
Lots of television programs, books and music can through dialogue and the ideas presented, inhibit one’s development. Some programs can and do impose ideas in the brain and mind, which given the right set of circumstances in a person’s life, cause serious harm or can bring about a healing, depending on which programs one views on the television. Scary, horror and violent programs do have a negative impact on human behavior, especially if one is not accustomed to such programming bringing about more developmental difficulties.
If the mind is bogged down with lots of dialogue from a film or book, be it scary or not, and one has an undeveloped mind, then disaster can befall that person because the mind is not trained to cope with its content and synaptic connections in the brain are not there to prevent re-enacting what has been put into the mind. The brain does not just learn from what it sees but what it hears. One faculty of the brain does not take precedent over the other unless one or the other is not working. They work in unison. We laugh at children when they play act different things, we know as adults came from the television, or some book or a song, (what I am talking about), but is it really funny. In these situations one has no choice but to relinquish control of one’s libidinal energies to a writer for help. Sometimes familial situations force or promote the use of television, books or music, instead of seeking appropriate help or that help is simply unavailable. In these cases many young adults identify with characters on the television, in books or through music, who they think resemble proper adult behavior or behavior they like. Even proper behavior viewed on the television can easily be projected away from the self just as God sent Satan into the world, as this has been programmed into us to do for generations and projecting was once the purpose of the television to get one to project unfavorable content away from the self, or to project projections from others, away from the self. First we were seduced by the television and its programs, then we were tricked into believing the television was evil and with it went the good parts of ourselves or the upper class potential in us all portrayed in many films, projected onto others-the good people in the programs we watched-leaving many of us to feel like criminals, given to alcoholism, drug addicts, addicted to cigarettes, obsessed with sex and food, hopeless, worthless and bound for hell.
In my case rebelling at times saved me from falling prey to that which controlled the behavior of my parents, the television, books and music. What happened? I could not be without one or the other of them and I then became enmeshed with the lives of those trying to help clean up the mess who clearly indulged in one or the other.
I might also be the reincarnation of a soul who was accustomed to re-enacting (acting out as in a play) things or a soul who was traumatized before my birth (“life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re going to get”) and for whatever reason was unable to uncover the source of their psychiatric difficulties. This in no way takes away from my having been traumatized but certainly gives legitimate explanation for why it happened. It is easy to see from this point of view how one can mistakenly become possessed of a soul different from one’s physical sex or even in opposition to one’s future desires. So, it is easy to deduce from my personal experience, Neurolinguistic Programming a Case of Helping or Hurting, that television, books and music do have an impact on thinking and the mental development of those who indulge and affects those with whom indulgers are connected through family or other associations.
One can believe what I have stated or one can certainly indulge and find out for one’s self what can and does happen.